This month, we’re honored to spotlight a woman whose story is a powerful reflection of resilience, faith, and grace under pressure. Meet Yana B., a proud single mom from Washington, DC, raising two amazing children—Anaya (21) and Lee (7). Her journey hasn’t followed a straight line, but her strength continues to inspire everyone around her.
A Season of Shifting and Surrender
Describing her current chapter as “forced to pivot and pray,” Yana is navigating the emotional and financial aftermath of an unexpected job loss. After 15 years in federal service, she was one of many forced to resign due to widespread changes within government employment.
“It felt like a jolt to my nervous system,” she shares. “The stress took a real toll on my health. Right now, I’m just focused on staying well enough to be present—for myself and for my children.”
Community in the Midst of Change
Despite the shock, Yana found comfort in connection. “I’ve had so much support—especially online. Knowing others are in the same situation helped me feel less alone,” she says. “There’s a silent bond among those of us navigating this.”
This shared experience has created a quiet strength—a reminder that even in loss, solidarity can carry us through.
A Survivor’s Perspective
Yana is no stranger to adversity. At a young age, she was diagnosed with lupus and eventually lost both kidneys. She received a transplant from her mother 26 years ago and has lived each day since with a deep sense of gratitude.
“I don’t mother the way others do,” she says. “Every good day feels like a gift. I’m over 40, raising a young child while living with a transplant. I’ve learned to be fully present—mentally, physically, and spiritually.”
Leaning on Faith, Letting Go of Fear
While the future may feel uncertain, Yana is letting faith lead the way. “I don’t want to struggle. I don’t want to force things. I just want to grow in the right direction and trust that God’s grace will carry me forward.”
Real Advice from a Real Mom
Her advice to other single moms in transition is both practical and profound:
“Don’t panic—and don’t talk about it with everyone. Sitting in the stress makes it heavier. Try to stay neutral, even if you can’t be positive. Hold onto the small joys—sunshine, laughter, anything good. And protect your mental health, whatever that looks like for you.”
Reflections on Motherhood and Legacy
This past Mother’s Day, Yana spent time with another single mom while their children played—a reminder of the quiet sisterhood that comes from shared experiences. While every year looks different, what stays the same is her desire to use the moment to teach her children the value of thoughtfulness and giving.
“I’m the one reminding them to buy the flowers or make the card,” she laughs. “But I do it so they grow up to be kind and intentional. It’s a teaching moment—and I cherish the little things they do.”
What she hopes her children remember most is how she showed up:
“I was there for everything. I worked, I paid the bills, I created a stable home—all while living life on my own terms. I tried to give them the kind of life that didn’t feel like something was missing.”
A Legacy of Strength and Grace
Yana lives by the mantra, “Don’t look like what you’ve been through.” Her go-to scripture, Jeremiah 29:11, reminds her that even now, there is a plan and a future worth holding on to. And when words fail, she turns to the song “God Provides” by Tamela Mann—a reminder that divine provision always finds a way.
Yana, thank you for sharing your journey with such honesty and heart. Your story is a reflection of so many single moms who are doing their best, often in silence. We’re proud to celebrate you as our Featured Mom of the Month, and we know your voice will resonate far beyond this moment.
Stay connected as we continue to follow Yana’s powerful journey—rooted in faith, resilience, and real-life motherhood. She’s not only walking through life with grace, but doing it in style. For more inspiring reflections and elevated everyday fashion, follow her at @yanabstyles. She’s a beautiful reminder that strength and style can absolutely coexist.
